I have a mouth inflamation and now my eye is .....?

every month when i get my period my body goes through high temperature and it will either show in my lip as a cold sore or in my mouth always at my wisdom tooth. This time it was very bad, my wisdom tooth was swollen and it was red and i couldn't even open my mouth enough to eat. Very painfull and uncomfortable, as this happened before to me i was just waiting for it to go away by itself. it didn't and not only that but on my other side by the jaw there is a little something like a (gland) maybe that i can touch and feel (never had it before) and also my eye in the same side hurts when i shut it tight, which never did before either. And only one eye hurts and is in the opposite side of the inflammation that i have on my wisdom tooth. Now, based on the research that i have done i am pretty scared, don't even want to talk what i read, so i was just hopping maybe anyone of you had experienced these before and just give me some feedback, it would be very appreciated. Thanks.